For much of Dad's final four years, I was his roommate and primary caregiver. Recently, I was talking with a friend and we were reminiscing about our late parents, and as he was speaking, it dawned on me that Dad did not spend one night in a hospital or long-term care facility during those years. Not even one night! In fact, his last overnight stay in a hospital was for a minor heart condition about 15-17 years ago.
Dad had several doctors, primary care (basic care and routine bloodwork), urologist (treatment for a moving kidney stone), neurologist (testing and medications), podiatrist (toe nail trimming), even a surgeon's consultation (for an opinion on a troublesome hernia). He used the local hospital for some tests, x-rays, and a renal stone crush procedure, but he never required hospitalization. Think about how remarkable that is for someone in his mid-80s and facing the natural end of his life.
What can I conclude? Dad was very blessed! And my sister, brother, and I were too!
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